You guys have that sometime you forget very important things? - Off-topic

You guys sometime forget very important things although you prepared it all very good, but at the last moment you still forget it.
Today it happened with me, I sent mine passport away for an visa application, but after I got home I see that I forget to put the required flight ticket with it.
After that I read suddenly that the travel plan is still needed, first I though it was not needed any more from 22-03-2012, but just now I read that it is not needed any more from 22-03-2013.
So now I'm confused, did I read it wrong or did they first put on that page 22-03-2012? Well I send two mails with the missing documents, I hope they don't charge me administration costs for those 4 A4 prints they need to make for me now.

CRAP! You just reminded me of something! Sorry about your problem but I got to go! Literally!
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icenight89 said:
I have no idea what op is saying
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Actually... I don't either lol the last two paragraphs lose me! I can't stay focused
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icenight89 said:
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I guess you never need apply for an visa which requires you to put many documents with the application.
That's where I'm talking about, I forget to put two important documents and I already e-mailed the documents to that company, but I got no response back. I could be they just print it and add and that it, but I would like an response.
I'm now like tracking the package I send to them and I will call later again if I see they got it. As they must see the mistake them self to, they must control it on mistakes.

ohhh, u made a mistake applying for your visa, gotcha. Can't say I feel ur pain bro, im Canadian. Hope it works out for u thou

The annoying thing is, normally she answers the mail kinda fast, but I haven't got an reply on mine mail anymore since 22-03-2012.
I guess they are busy? May is probably a month many people will apply for a visa. Oh well I just keep tracking the package and if they wanna charge me € 15 administration costs for printing 4A papers then I will send an mail that I found a company who does the visa application cheaper.
But I don't think they send it to the ambassade whichout checking everything. I'm just human so I can make mistakes to.
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Everything will come alright the company mailed.

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Text monitoring software for kaiser??

does anyone know of any application that monitors text messages.. what im trying to do is find a program that will foward any message that is sent or recieved on my girlfriends phone.. she has a tilt as do i.. so im wondering if anyone has this particular type of software. i suspect something going on which is neither here nor there but id like to have a 1-2 week log of her texts to confront her with... so im basically trying to get a copy of every text that goes out or comes in. thanks guys
Yea, I will start forwarding them all to you
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Yea, I will start forwarding them all to you
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Cold... Very cold
heh...lol i could of used something like that for my girlfriend..i mean X girlfriend
visual studio 6 has great ce tools maybe you could write one for us! but really lol i dont think theres anything out there to do this. if i find something ill tell you.
If you don't trust your gf enough that you need to do this, then you should probably just break up. If you do somehow get a program for this (and it's highly doubtful) and confront her with it I think she'll have just as much to be angry about as you. Pretty big invasion of privacy whether or not she's guilty of what you suspect.
I have to agree with others that if you have to resort to spying rather than trust and talking to each other then you have bigger problems to deal with.
But if you must here are three that I know of. I used to see another program but I can't find it now.
http://www.flexispy.com/spyphone-windows-mobile.htm
http://www.mobile-spy.com/
http://microsoft.handango.com/Platf...19509&sectionId=0&catalog=1&&authorId=1637871
Its NOT software you want its a hardware device called "Chastity-Belt" not quite sure if its Windows Mobile 6 compatible but it may do the trick.
Good Luck
uhhh...wtf ^
look into an experimental program being developed(in its beta stages) called sprite archie, google it, its not hard to find, i used it for similar purposes and it worked great. It will forward call logs, and sms, to an email account!
oh here ya go: http://www.spritesoftware.com/store/index.php?main_page=product_info&products_id=201 , this will be exactly what your looking for, and its pretty stealth, providing you delete the shortcuts in the program folder!
Let me tell you from experience. If you go down this path.. it will never stop. You will NEVER be satisfied. If you log her texts and see that she's not doing anything.. you'll just take it even further and further.
Just break up with her. If she asks why, tell her the truth. You just don't feel you can trust her. This is what I did in my past relationship of nearly 6 years and I am glad it's over.
lol i love how it turned into a relationship advising post
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lol i love how it turned into a relationship advising post
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Yeah, I just wish people would stick to the request, and leave the other bs out! This is Xda developers, not Xda Dr Phil!
Burrrnnn!!! agree with ditching the loose change
etnies said:
heh...lol i could of used something like that for my girlfriend..i mean X girlfriend
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Something like this would be cool. I would donate if that was made on this forum..

app for menstrual cycle?

does anyone know if theres a freeware app for tracking menstrual cycles? just thought of tracking my girlfriends...
Step 1. make an entry in your calender for the last week and a half of every month.
Step 2. Anytime you see your wife/gf turn your body 180 degrees and walk the other way.
haha..but seriously
Use your calendar and reference this picture.
EASY.
http://www.fhi.org/pic/mencycle.gif
Bloody hell..
Good grief, don't you have any better things to do with your time than track your girlfriend's period???????????????
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I find this cab, but I haven't tested yet … Give me a feed back if it's OK.
Hmm.
A Today Plug-in that makes your Kaiser moody and unresponsive one week out of every four. I dunno- the HTC drivers do a pretty good job of that already.
*amused*
Just told the g/f about this, and she looked at me with pure disgust
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does anyone know if theres a freeware app for tracking menstrual cycles? just thought of tracking my girlfriends...
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I'd just like to make a Grammar Statement.
If indeed you did mean to type "girlfriends" which is plural, and means more than one, than I can see why you'd want to track it.
But If you mean you wanted to track the cycle that belongs to your girlfriend, you need to type "girlfriend's." The apostrophe makes it possessive.
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well big lol
that prog of yours works the same like a calendar. only thing is when youre pushing like oct. 1 you will get a menu screen, which allows you the option to select in what period the girl is in, like dry,slightbleeding etc.
also you can select whether you can have sex with ur gf or not, or when do you need protection, or if she got cramps all sorts of stuff pretty funny actually^^ great find maybe im gonna buy it^^
First of all, Bloody hell is right
Secondly, LOL @ Girlfriends vs Girlfriend's
Third, WOW, it was odd enough that someone asked about that kind of software, but that someone else made it, thats just TFF.
I checked it out, pretty cool, even allows you to check off a day when she is PMSing (Which is just about every day)
But I think your gf would start wondering what was going on if you were taking her temp and giving her a mini-physical every day.
get the pill. i think its worth it. yasmine, recommended by doc with least side effects. PHP 680. there are cheaper but I'd rather not risk my wife's health.
I also tried to find an app but mostly not free.
>>oh yeah, I didn't know I'd be giving medical advice on xda devs.
There is a free app like this called My Girls. I think it's just java.
A straight answer pls
I understand this dudes pain. It sucks NOT KNOWING. Also.... if your trusting your wife/girlfriend then wtf are you thinking trusting a woman LOL. JK. Well personally I would like to see an app for this because i keep track with desktop software lol. Also.... can you guys pls not correct my grammar.... that's just ridiculous. Now....im gonna go buy a boxen of donuts ttyl.
man you mean this sort of thing doesnt happen every week?
Maybe I should keep track
for a moment i had this really crazy idea that women may visit this forum !!!
why not just ask ?, i can understand if your trying for a baby, remember some are irregular
Dear god, please stay on topic.....this thread is getting disturbing
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Dear god, please stay on topic.....this thread is getting disturbing
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This is true, Everyone please stay on topic. I understand how one could make light of this subject. And that's fine. Also, don't get too heavy. Keep it at a nice normal flow.
software, but not free
There is the software called LaFeme+. It's prety good, however it can only keep the info on 1 female specie. Also it has info on the body temp and different level of aggression Wright me PM - will help

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Everything was hacked!
Paypal
Email
XDA
All my passwords were changed and I am being held at ransom!
he wants 250,000 euro
for all my info
F%#*& You!
I got some passwords and **** back but I AM PISSED!
He stole money from my paypal over the weekend... $687.83 which i am getting back through paypal
Im supposed to call the FBI number the cops gave me... but I want to meet this guy in person.. he better hope to God he doesnt ever see me!
Just a heads up on me right now.... been going through a lot of **** right now!
I just went and changed my paypal password to protect the donors. And remember, most of the time when people hack your accounts they dont figure out the password, they answer the security questions correctly.
Yeah watch what you put up on any of your online profiles, not too much personal information, like your dogs name, or favorite color.
dude that blows, but like brandenk said, they usually get the security quesion right so i would suggest changing all of those too. i'm a security freak and i use keyscrambler to encrypt my keystrokes so phishing scams and fake pages can't get my info. hope your day get's better man
damn your life just got hacked. Wish you good luck bro
WHAT THE!
Is there a way of tracing his communications with you? If you can, you may be able to take some legal action bro... Check out some internet forensics on the matter. I work at a Law Firm, so I'll check out some of their tools for this.
That's sooooooo not cool... People die for stuff like that man.
Wow!
Very bad situation
Wish you patience and for sure hackers will pay
Good luck and good vibes to you mate
Thanks all,
Sorry bout the post in the wrong section but I had to release my frustrations fast before I exploded
I think I got it all taken care of through paypal, my bank, and google.
I lost some data but i dont think its anything he can really use against me or even if he saved it before I deleted everything...lol
Seems like a newb job after I think about it...
I was kinda like... " hows this fool gonna hold me for ransom with useless info that I went in and deleted myself once i got my mail back... lol"
I dont have anything anyways and my credit is shot... Good Luck...lol
I have his info now... how you gonna hold ransom with payment through paypal and get away with it anyway? lol
That sucks bro glad you got it all fixed.
LOL...def a noob job...I hope he pays for it.
I had someone try to steal my information once. I fell for a weak phishing scam like 6 years ago through AIM...luckily my aim pass was not any of my other passes.
Ummm, if anyone knows how to get aim S/Ns back hit me up...please...I have a lot of old college contacts that are now gone.
bummer...glad you got your stuff back from the noob hack!
Randum that sucks! you have any idea how he got all your info? Anything to do with the G1 you think?
Even now that it's all resolved you should call the FBI.
The F**** should pay for what he has done!
paypal number generator thingy, verifies identity
a few months back I got an email from paypal and they offered me one of those encryption key fobs , lotsa people have them for work nets etc, after I give my login and password then the # key the fob gives me , if I dont have my key there is a phone #(my cell) that paypal will call me at and a computer reads me my number so I can log on when im not home or just dont have the fob, I keep the thing velcro'd to my desk...
ask paypal, it was free and adds a pretty darn good security layer to paypal and fleabay also they both use it everytime i login.
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RandumAccess said:
Everything was hacked!
Paypal
Email
XDA
All my passwords were changed and I am being held at ransom!
he wants 250,000 euro
for all my info
F%#*& You!
I got some passwords and **** back but I AM PISSED!
He stole money from my paypal over the weekend... $687.83 which i am getting back through paypal
Im supposed to call the FBI number the cops gave me... but I want to meet this guy in person.. he better hope to God he doesnt ever see me!
Just a heads up on me right now.... been going through a lot of **** right now!
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PS3 Development

Hello all, I'm new here. Don't you just love seeing those 5 words?
Anyways, I own a PS3 and was wondering if anyone has or heard of a program that enables you to copy movies and games to the internal hard drive?
Basically giving you the ability to get rid of those cumbersome discs. I'm a moron, so please go easy on me. I've heard of one for the PS2. But that only enables games to be copied. Any feedback is greatly appreciated.
Thanks in advance.
Wise man say, "never pay full price for late pizza. "
Its people like you, yes you, that put game devs and companies out of freaking business. PEOPLE LIKE YOU are the reason i cant play dead rising 2 with my friends because PSN is down. Its people like you that try to cheat everybody out of whats thiers. There are websites FOR the specific question youre asking. NOT XDA-Developers. We do NOT associate with warez, nor illegal copyright infringment. People like you that want everything but dont wanna fuc*** pay for it make me sick.
//end rant.
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Take a chill pill watt. I know where you're coming from.
@OP: Sorry, this is XDA, not PS3-dev.forum.com, so, er...
Really guys, be nice to him. It was a question. Thats all.
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Look. I do apoligize. But piriating and sh*t has gone way to far. Im sorry. The whole GeoHotz thing, custom firmwares, psn hacked, its got me strung out cause i had credit card info on there. Sorry OP, just piriating/copy infringment pisses me off.
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watt9493 said:
Look. I do apoligize. But piriating and sh*t has gone way to far. Im sorry. The whole GeoHotz thing, custom firmwares, psn hacked, its got me strung out cause i had credit card info on there. Sorry OP, just piriating/copy infringment pisses me off.
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It pisses me off too. Just chill, man. No need to get overworked over anything
watt9493 said:
Look. I do apoligize. But piriating and sh*t has gone way to far. Im sorry. The whole GeoHotz thing, custom firmwares, psn hacked, its got me strung out cause i had credit card info on there. Sorry OP, just piriating/copy infringment pisses me off.
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Wow... hit a nerve did I? I'm not interested in pirating anything.
I pay for my movies and games. I have also donated to several devs on this forum for their work and contributions.
I simply would like to take all of my discs and install them on my hard drive. I'm getting irritated with the wall of dvd boxes, and tired of the discs getting scratched and dirty.
To much maintenance if you ask me.
Even putting them in a disc logic binder is still negating the purpose.
However, I do agree... people that pirate cause all of the problems, and because of them the majority pays for their crimes.
I apologize for any misunderstanding. If I posted this on the wrong forum, delete it. I just thought, with the wealth of experience and knowledge, here would be a good spot to ask my question.
Wise man say, "never pay full price for late pizza. "
lncoln said:
Wow... hit a nerve did I? I'm not interested in pirating anything.
I pay for my movies and games. I have also donated to several devs on this forum for their work and contributions.
I simply would like to take all of my discs and install them on my hard drive. I'm getting irritated with the wall of dvd boxes, and tired of the discs getting scratched and dirty.
To much maintenance if you ask me.
Even putting them in a disc logic binder is still negating the purpose.
However, I do agree... people that pirate cause all of the problems, and because of them the majority pays for their crimes.
I apologize for any misunderstanding. If I posted this on the wrong forum, delete it. I just thought, with the wealth of experience and knowledge, here would be a good spot to ask my question.
Wise man say, "never pay full price for late pizza. "
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This is the right section. Off topic. A Ps3 site might be better able to help you though. Youre not going to get much response from the guys here. Just not the "thing" anyway, i apoligize for my first post, its just that when people come, asking to do something VERY sketchy, that is in the news and were having problems with, it raises a red flag. Sorry for any misunderstanding.
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watt9493 said:
This is the right section. Off topic. A Ps3 site might be better able to help you though. Youre not going to get much response from the guys here. Just not the "thing" anyway, i apoligize for my first post, its just that when people come, asking to do something VERY sketchy, that is in the news and were having problems with, it raises a red flag. Sorry for any misunderstanding.
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Nice to see you two kiss and make up. Now go get a room.
Back on topic (or off topic, let's not go there, shall we?), piracy is a major problem for a lot of people. I can't get access to cheap games, especially when a game could cost up to half a week's wage for me, and that's not even taking into account my living expenses.
You know the funny thing is, I had no idea about the PSN hack until 15 mins ago. One of the first stories on the news.
Why can't people just leave sh*t alone? Stop with the bs.
I understand that without hackers, we wouldn't have some of the stuff that we have. But come on! There's a line that people just shouldn't cross.
Wise man say, "never pay full price for late pizza. "
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You know the funny thing is, I had no idea about the PSN hack until 15 mins ago. One of the first stories on the news.
Why can't people just leave sh*t alone? Stop with the bs.
I understand that without hackers, we wouldn't have some of the stuff that we have. But come on! There's a line that people just shouldn't cross.
Wise man say, "never pay full price for late pizza. "
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Sony crossed that line first.
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Sony crossed that line first.
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So true. Doesn't mean you have to ruin it for millions.
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Dudes you just reminded me my card details are on PSN too Can you access PSN from website?
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Dudes you just reminded me my card details are on PSN too Can you access PSN from website?
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I have no idea. I'd anything does come out, its going right back in, or Sony will hear a lotta stuff from a lotta people
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watt9493 said:
Look. I do apoligize. But piriating and sh*t has gone way to far. Im sorry. The whole GeoHotz thing, custom firmwares, psn hacked, its got me strung out cause i had credit card info on there. Sorry OP, just piriating/copy infringment pisses me off.
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Actually I would blame Sony for all of this before GeoHot, if their security division would've been doing their jobs that I'm sure they're getting paid six figure salaries for, none of this would've happened, or at least the extremity of it. If Sony is offering a service that requires ppl credit card info, its their jobs to make damn sure the server where all this sensitive info is kept is 100% secure.
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Actually I would blame Sony for all of this before GeoHot, if their security division would've been doing their jobs that I'm sure they're getting paid six figure salaries for, none of this would've happened, or at least the extremity of it. If Sony is offering a service that requires ppl credit card info, its their jobs to make damn sure the server where all this sensitive info is kept is 100% secure.
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You blame sony for this!?! People make security systems. People arent perfect. Therefore neither are the security systems. Sony went after GeoHotz after he hacked the ps3 and made it possible to copy movies/games to the HD. This isnt sonys fault. Its the pricks that think they should get something for nothing.
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You blame sony for this!?! People make security systems. People arent perfect. Therefore neither are the security systems. Sony went after GeoHotz after he hacked the ps3 and made it possible to copy movies/games to the HD. This isnt sonys fault. Its the pricks that think they should get something for nothing.
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Oh I hold GeoHot and Anonymous responsible in ways too, but Sony isn't a saint in this either.
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Actually I would blame Sony for all of this before GeoHot, if their security division would've been doing their jobs that I'm sure they're getting paid six figure salaries for, none of this would've happened, or at least the extremity of it. If Sony is offering a service that requires ppl credit card info, its their jobs to make damn sure the server where all this sensitive info is kept is 100% secure.
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You can't possibly be serious, that's like saying "Oh, I can break into your car so if I do it's your fault for not making the car indestructible." You can't blame Sony because their security isn't air tight. No one's security is air tight, there will almost always be a loophole.
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yeah but sony's suing graf_chocolo as well! he did nothing related to piracy, he only wanted to restore a feature that was unrightfully taken from us: the other os feature. one of the two reasons I bought my ps3 was this feature, and sony just removes it "for security concerns?" furthermore, graf also stated that he would only turn it into a devs' thing or something, something that wouldn't be able to be used as an exploit for cfw whatsoever. i am against sony all the way - especially now that i know that they attempted to view our ip adresses for watching hotz's and graf's videos.....
Its not that hard to do and it doesnt take a special program, remember Google is your friend.

Help me get my love back,maybe?

Hey guys, i don't do anything like this usually,its way awkward for me. But desperate times call for desperate measures as they say... Iv'e dated only one girl all my life...we have been in a stable relationship since the past 8 and a half years. but since the last two years,because of my career and all,and because of some silly things that happened, i did the worst mistake of my life. i abused her,didnt respect her and never trusted her even when i knew she is a good person...she loves my alot but three weeks back she left town to pursue her higher studies...eventually,she let it all out and told me she no longer wants to be in a relationship with me...last week was our anniversary and she didn't even bother to wish me...instead she said she likes someone else now. im shattered. i know somewhere deep down that this may not be the case and she wont ever do anything like this..we are from india and from conservative families.our families know about us and they all love me. still i went ahead and fell so low and have even messaged that guy on facebook today and begged him to leave this on for me...he's 26 and 4 years elder to me and my girl..he must be taking care and maybe thats why she slipped. i dunno what to do but i wanna get her back cos all ive been doing since last week is cry. i cannot afford to lose her or i know il\'ll ruin my life...
dear friends at XDA, i need your help.all i want is that if i post a number her...can you guys please send just one small sms to her with your own message for her to come back to me and end the sms with "varun loves you"? if you guys think i should still have her,will you please help me out...its a request and my life is dependent on that girl.please.
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Hey guys, i don't do anything like this usually,its way awkward for me. But desperate times call for desperate measures as they say... Iv'e dated only one girl all my life...we have been in a stable relationship since the past 8 and a half years. but since the last two years,because of my career and all,and because of some silly things that happened, i did the worst mistake of my life. i abused her,didnt respect her and never trusted her even when i knew she is a good person...she loves my alot but three weeks back she left town to pursue her higher studies...eventually,she let it all out and told me she no longer wants to be in a relationship with me...last week was our anniversary and she didn't even bother to wish me...instead she said she likes someone else now. im shattered. i know somewhere deep down that this may not be the case and she wont ever do anything like this..we are from india and from conservative families.our families know about us and they all love me. still i went ahead and fell so low and have even messaged that guy on facebook today and begged him to leave this on for me...he's 26 and 4 years elder to me and my girl..he must be taking care and maybe thats why she slipped. i dunno what to do but i wanna get her back cos all ive been doing since last week is cry. i cannot afford to lose her or i know il\'ll ruin my life...
dear friends at XDA, i need your help.all i want is that if i post a number her...can you guys please send just one small sms to her with your own message for her to come back to me and end the sms with "varun loves you"? if you guys think i should still have her,will you please help me out...its a request and my life is dependent on that girl.please.
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Ok,it seems like you need help from an expert.
You mistreated her.and they hate that.you cant act like that to a girl! Se is always right,even if shes wrong.and if you really love her,you will understand that.you need to apologize,and tell her you made a huge mistake,and that you cant live without her.that she is your whole life,and you will do anything to get her back.now go get her!
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1st off..the worst you can do, you have done..
2nd..if she likes someone else and has moved on, i suggest you move on too...it is but natural that the depression last for a few days but make new friends and move on..dont stop talking though..
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D3HuM4NiZ3D said:
Ok,it seems like you need help from an expert.
You mistreated her.and they hate that.you cant act like that to a girl! Se is always right,even if shes wrong.and if you really love her,you will understand that.you need to apologize,and tell her you made a huge mistake,and that you cant live without her.that she is your whole life,and you will do anything to get her back.now go get her!
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That "you are my life, cant live without you" ****e works rarely..no girl who is genuinely angry and hurt will believe in that..
i know it that i have done mistakes...im working on that...it's hard for me and i know its even harder for her...i guess i took her for granted...she has loved me more than i can all her life...i dont know why after all these years she did this..she could have asked me to change,but she left by the time i realized my mistakes. problem is...she has blocked me everywhere,i cannot contact her on whatsapp or facebook or anywhere...she doesn't pick up unknown calls and india has limited the number of sms we can send to 20. i have three simcards and thats all i can manage to send.i never wrote to her a love letter even once,,,thanks to email and all...but today i even mailed her a 6 page long letter along with her favourite chocolates...i am not asking her to continue this relationship rihgt now...i will change and become the guy she always wanted and only then if she wants she can come back. she still loves me too much to leave me...maybe she's doing this to make me realize the importance of my career and to be a nice guy.. btw,both of us are android buffs,so i turned towards xda to help me out.
Since she's your first girlfriend, this also means that this is the first time you've experienced this. The feelings you're having are normal. You'll be sad and maybe cry for a while, but that's just natural. The worst thing you can do now is "stalking" her or send tons of SMS' or constantly calling her. Let her have some space and time to think, then after a while you can try to contact her and see if she wants to talk. If she says no, then move on. You can't force her to be with you.
I know you're having a hard time, but this is life.
varunoza said:
i know it that i have done mistakes...im working on that...it's hard for me and i know its even harder for her...i guess i took her for granted...she has loved me more than i can all her life...i dont know why after all these years she did this..she could have asked me to change,but she left by the time i realized my mistakes. problem is...she has blocked me everywhere,i cannot contact her on whatsapp or facebook or anywhere...she doesn't pick up unknown calls and india has limited the number of sms we can send to 20. i have three simcards and thats all i can manage to send.i never wrote to her a love letter even once,,,thanks to email and all...but today i even mailed her a 6 page long letter along with her favourite chocolates...i am not asking her to continue this relationship rihgt now...i will change and become the guy she always wanted and only then if she wants she can come back. she still loves me too much to leave me...maybe she's doing this to make me realize the importance of my career and to be a nice guy., she has a number on which she uses EDGE...its safe to post here cos she cannot recieve calls,just messages. . its a request if ppl can just message her anything that ends with "varun loves you" please no offences. btw,both of us are android buffs,so i turned towards xda to help me out.
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You say android buffs, make something special for her...
Honestly, move on..
its safe to post here cos she cannot recieve calls,just messages. [number removed]. its a request if ppl can just message her anything that ends with "varun loves you" please no offences. btw,both of us are android buffs,so i turned towards xda to help me out.
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I would advice you to remove that number from your post. This is a public forum after all.
King ACE said:
You say android buffs, make something special for her...
Honestly, move on..
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i did.sent her a pendrive as well with a video...added something close to her heart in it. she's immature at times but a very nice person...i cnnot move on like this...afterall, how couldn't i be possessive for someone who makes me what i am...i love her..i have to do all this...just cannot let her go that easily!
You're smothering her. The things you're doing right now doesn't help. At all.
varunoza said:
i did.sent her a pendrive as well with a video...added something close to her heart in it. she's immature at times but a very nice person...i cnnot move on like this...afterall, how couldn't i be possessive for someone who makes me what i am...i love her..i have to do all this...just cannot let her go that easily!
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No one's telling you to move on without trying..like i said, talk to her, explain your past and current situation and tell her you realise your mistake and promise you wont do it again..(not in the right mind atleast)..then give her some time to think over it(even if she gives a straight answer immediately) and if she comes back, well and good, if not, you need to move on too..
I have two bits of advice for you.
Firstly, if you do this...
varunoza said:
dear friends at XDA, i need your help.all i want is that if i post a number her...can you guys please send just one small sms to her with your own message for her to come back to me and end the sms with "varun loves you"? if you guys think i should still have her,will you please help me out...its a request and my life is dependent on that girl.please.
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it will be immediately removed, probably reported by other members, and you will get in trouble for posting it. Do you really think that if you post her mobile number on here people will send her text messages telling her you love her, or do you think she'll get people ringing and texting her and "having fun" at her expense. Probably a bit of both. Do not post her number - official all proper and stuff mod warning for you!
Secondly, if she wants to move on then you have to move on as well. I know that's not what you want to hear, but you're going to have to do it eventually so you may as well start now. Accept that she has gone and get on with your life without her. When you're with the next love of your life you probably won't even think about her.
Harsh, but true.
Archer said:
I have two bits of advice for you.
Firstly, if you do this...
it will be immediately removed, probably reported by other members, and you will get in trouble for posting it. Do you really think that if you post her mobile number on here people will send her text messages telling her you love her, or do you think she'll get people ringing and texting her and "having fun" at her expense. Probably a bit of both. Do not post her number - official all proper and stuff mod warning for you!
Secondly, if she wants to move on then you have to move on as well. I know that's not what you want to hear, but you're going to have to do it eventually so you may as well start now. Accept that she has gone and get on with your life without her. When you're with the next love of your life you probably won't even think about her.
Harsh, but true.
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Wholly agreed upon..
this crap happened with me too, but i moved on..and as stated :
When you're with the next love of your life you probably won't even think about her.
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maybe i can't give you the best advise, after all i'm just 15 but i'd recommend this: have some time to think, just 1 or 2 or maybe if you need 3 days... just think about what she can reply to any of your words. at these days don't bother her - they are for looking inside yourself. make your speech perfect. then ask her (someway) to just sit down and talk normally - this way she will know you have changed, not by begging... then you take out your previously thought up speech and hope for the best... and one more thing - be positive - that way everything will turn up alright and in the best way possible
sent from my UFO via laser beams.
Yup...removed it. Had posted cos its number for her dongle.she cannot receive calls...I know I should be patient...if I am though...I'll lose her to someone else ..I'm just scared
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varunoza said:
Yup...removed it. Had posted cos its number for her dongle.she cannot receive calls...I know I should be patient...if I am though...I'll lose her to someone else ..I'm just scared
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She already does like someone else, doesnt she?
Of course you're scared. But she's in control now, and you can't change that. Sending her loads of text messages won't help you. Give her time, and if she misses you, she'll contact you herself. I've been in this mess myself, and acting like a maniac with low self-esteem doesn't help.
Call your buds and do things with them. Play some Xbox or something and get your thoughts on something else.
King ACE said:
She already does like someone else, doesnt she?
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Im in mumbai and she went to Manipal recently...she says she likes a guy she just met in her batch...and he treats her much better than what i did..it scrares the **** outta me cos never in the last 8 years she said something like this.
Buy her a android phone,and tell her to join xda we wil talk to her! Lolz!
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King ACE said:
She already does like someone else, doesnt she?
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Looks like it, and that means that she's had an eye on the other guy for a while, which isn't good news.
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stanlin salu said:
Buy her a android phone,and tell her to join xda we wil talk to her! Lolz!
Sent from my WT19i using xda premium
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Hey hey hey, we got Dr.Phil for a reason
LordManhattan said:
Looks like it, and that means that she's had an eye on the other guy for a while, which isn't good news.
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Hey hey hey, we got Dr.Phil for a reason
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Yup, not good news...

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