Every single time without fail for the past 20 years, whenever something seeps into society that millions of people get to use, I am left behind because I cannot ever get anything to work that millions of people all seem to magically somehow get working. Furthermore any time someone tries to explain ti all they do is cause even more confusion because they are under some mystery assumption that I even have a clue to what they're talking about. So i never use things because no one explains how to use any of it and what do exist for instructions require massive amounts of instructions to understand.
One example of this is that hashtag texting crap ( TEXT the word (Insert word to). I'm not even sure where to begin on how confusing and nonsensical that is. A hashtag does not ever allow you to directly call a phone not too mention you have no idea what they're talking about.
Finally after 8 years of hearing and reading people say that and seeing it in ads, I literally walked into a phone store and when i asked it took 20 minutes of going in circles for them to finally realize what i was asking, When someone says texting that could mean anything So I said face book they said no, I said twitter, they said no, I said email, again no..I said WTF is texting them finally after they realized they didn't actually explain it and realized texting in itself has no instructions making it impossible for people who don't know what it means, to use it.
Anyway, I made them go step by step and show me every single thing about texting and To this day, I still have no clue how to do it or what the point is. and it irritates me to no avail how people think things like this are somehow self explanatory. it's far from it.
That brings me to the main point of this post.
I am sick and tired of reading and seeing people say SCAN THIS QR Code and for the past 10 years, have yet to know WTF the word SCAN means in phone terms. Your phone IS NOT AND NEVER HAS BEEN A SCANNER so stop using that word.
Someone said use your camera..OK HOW, they said take a picture I then proceeded to argue with them for a half hour, that a picture is NOT A SCAN it's a damn picture.
Also what is the point to taking a picture of this stupid thing it doesn't do anything..WTF do I need a picture of a QR code for.
I have arrived at the conclusion that everyone has made something up just to troll people. Saying a picture of a QR does something is the same thing as me saying taking a picture of barbie doll pants makes a car appear in my driveway it's a stupid thing to say and nothing but pure nonsense and trolling.
Just for the heck of it, my wife and I went around and took pictures of about 26 QR codes and then tried figuring out what is supposed to happen. In the end all we had was 26 pictures of qr codes.
No one is going to convince me that QR codes do anything or have a point other than to troll people. Until me or my wife personally have something happen with one we take a picture of I will call anyone that says it does something or they used it or millions of people use them every day a liar.
If QR codes actiually did something then how come for the past 10 years nothing has ever happened when attempting to take a picture of one.
I am not going to get into this nonsense about people using the word SCAN your phone does not scan anything and never will. Your phone cannot do anything except take a picture, it does not emit a red line and never will because your phones lens doesn't do that because it's not a function of the lens itself so you cannot TURN your phone into what you see a department or someone taking inventory.
A scanner is an actual device that you find at a supermarket or department store that emits a red beam from it to scan bar codes and a qr code is not a bar code nor acts like one.
So does this mean you made this rant up to troll people as well?
After all you're one of us...
blackhawk said:
So does this mean you made this rant up to troll people as well?
After all you're one of us...
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What's with the over abundance of uneducated people on the net?
TL Gamer said:
What's with the over abundance of uneducated people on the net?
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Yes, well... perhaps you have purpose, you can teach.
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Yes, well... perhaps you have purpose, you can teach.
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Except that doesn't apply here because you replied to me first which makes anything you can try and say in accordance to what you're doing, invalid.
So congratulations, you've just let everyone know and see your iq level
Thanks for the laugh and awareness flag.
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Except that doesn't apply here because you replied to me first which makes anything you can try and say in accordance to what you're doing, invalid.
So congratulations, you've just let everyone know and see your iq level
Thanks for the laugh and awareness flag.
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When your first post is a lengthy rambling rant you dimed yourself out.
As best I can tell with my limited IQ...
OP will prolly freak-out if he/she knew people use "battery backup" to refer to batt life (or batt condition in general)
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Every single time without fail for the past 20 years, whenever something seeps into society that millions of people get to use, I am left behind because I cannot ever get anything to work that millions of people all seem to magically somehow get working. Furthermore any time someone tries to explain ti all they do is cause even more confusion because they are under some mystery assumption that I even have a clue to what they're talking about. So i never use things because no one explains how to use any of it and what do exist for instructions require massive amounts of instructions to understand.
One example of this is that hashtag texting crap ( TEXT the word (Insert word to). I'm not even sure where to begin on how confusing and nonsensical that is. A hashtag does not ever allow you to directly call a phone not too mention you have no idea what they're talking about.
Finally after 8 years of hearing and reading people say that and seeing it in ads, I literally walked into a phone store and when i asked it took 20 minutes of going in circles for them to finally realize what i was asking, When someone says texting that could mean anything So I said face book they said no, I said twitter, they said no, I said email, again no..I said WTF is texting them finally after they realized they didn't actually explain it and realized texting in itself has no instructions making it impossible for people who don't know what it means, to use it.
Anyway, I made them go step by step and show me every single thing about texting and To this day, I still have no clue how to do it or what the point is. and it irritates me to no avail how people think things like this are somehow self explanatory. it's far from it.
That brings me to the main point of this post.
I am sick and tired of reading and seeing people say SCAN THIS QR Code and for the past 10 years, have yet to know WTF the word SCAN means in phone terms. Your phone IS NOT AND NEVER HAS BEEN A SCANNER so stop using that word.
Someone said use your camera..OK HOW, they said take a picture I then proceeded to argue with them for a half hour, that a picture is NOT A SCAN it's a damn picture.
Also what is the point to taking a picture of this stupid thing it doesn't do anything..WTF do I need a picture of a QR code for.
I have arrived at the conclusion that everyone has made something up just to troll people. Saying a picture of a QR does something is the same thing as me saying taking a picture of barbie doll pants makes a car appear in my driveway it's a stupid thing to say and nothing but pure nonsense and trolling.
Just for the heck of it, my wife and I went around and took pictures of about 26 QR codes and then tried figuring out what is supposed to happen. In the end all we had was 26 pictures of qr codes.
No one is going to convince me that QR codes do anything or have a point other than to troll people. Until me or my wife personally have something happen with one we take a picture of I will call anyone that says it does something or they used it or millions of people use them every day a liar.
If QR codes actiually did something then how come for the past 10 years nothing has ever happened when attempting to take a picture of one.
I am not going to get into this nonsense about people using the word SCAN your phone does not scan anything and never will. Your phone cannot do anything except take a picture, it does not emit a red line and never will because your phones lens doesn't do that because it's not a function of the lens itself so you cannot TURN your phone into what you see a department or someone taking inventory.
A scanner is an actual device that you find at a supermarket or department store that emits a red beam from it to scan bar codes and a qr code is not a bar code nor acts like one.
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guys,
if we look into a dictionary and insert the word "scan", we would get several meanings:
1.observation
2.reviewing
3.research
4.startle
5.a brief reading
6..........
so, base on it I agree with U more approprie to call it "picture" rather than "scan".
but, if we just insert random picture, the app wont work! so here, we know that the app is indeed processing some pattern here and there (IMHO).
another thing that i have to agree with U is our phone indeed is not a scanner and it take a picture not scan a picture.
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There’s this guy at work and nearly every time he e-mails me, he CC’s my supervisor.
It’s really annoying because that leads to my supervisor getting involved in things that really are none of his concern.
My supervisor is already a micromanager and very reactionary (always assumes that if he's being asked about something that someone's not doing their job)
Also the guy who's doing this is one of those people who loves to get involved in other people's projects and pretend to be a part of them, so that leads to people going to him for status updates instead of me.
Any advice on getting him to stop in a diplomatic way without it pissing them off or putting him in a position to want to "step it up" and get back at me?
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There’s this guy at work and nearly every time he e-mails me, he CC’s my supervisor.
It’s really annoying because that leads to my supervisor getting involved in things that really are none of his concern.
My supervisor is already a micromanager and very reactionary (always assumes that if he's being asked about something that someone's not doing their job)
Also the guy who's doing this is one of those people who loves to get involved in other people's projects and pretend to be a part of them, so that leads to people going to him for status updates instead of me.
Any advice on getting him to stop in a diplomatic way without it pissing them off or putting him in a position to want to "step it up" and get back at me?
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Send him an e-mail that'll be very embarassing to CC all over the place.
Actually, these kind of people are quite dangerous, because they like to keep their backs covered. So be careful.
One thing I'd like to find out is, ultimately, what is the gripe? Is the CC annoying you, or the CC annoying your boss and then your boss annoys you? Finding out the root cause of a problem instead of treating the symptoms will be way better.
FIght him like a man, next to the water cooler
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FIght him like a man, next to the water cooler
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Psh... real men fight with keyboards. May the man with the heaviest (1982-circa clickety keyboard) wins!
Spill coffee in his workstation so his computer dies a slow smoking death. Then take everything in his cube and freeze it in jello. Then put pictures of a small penis in the womens restrooms with his name all over it.
pm me his and your boss email, ill email him gayporn and cc your boss
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Spill coffee in his workstation so his computer dies a slow smoking death. Then take everything in his cube and freeze it in jello. Then put pictures of a small penis in the womens restrooms with his name all over it.
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Y'know... I'd pay good money (ok, at least a buck or two) to see that.
Seriously, the dude's a loser and a trouble maker (as has been said up-thread). My advice would be to either completely cut him out of the process (death by starvation) or go further up the chain of command with materials and documentation and complain (death from above). Remember, there comes a point where the job isn't worth the hassle and frustration.
I had similar problem.
My boss is female. My colleague is male and trying to make his mark. I have one day every week when I work from a different office. He waits till I'm not around to ***** about me with her. I am more senior and better at the job. Even though she trusts me implicitly, it still annoys me that the guy is behaving like a little prick. He asks to have days off in the most busy times and only asks her when I'm not around; as if I would say no! I can cope with the work on my own and nobody asks him for anything if I'm around.
When he's done the *****ing thing 3 times I've blown my top with the two of them, collected some reports on all the works I've done and threatened to leave. They would/could not get anyone cheaper and with the same level of knowledge and control. The emails stopped and now, as long as he does not mess the work too much, I cannot care less what he does. I do my work and **** a snoot at the rest.
Cheers!
Unplug all the fans but a couple from his PC so it dies a slow painful death
He is probably a sociopath. These people are all around us. They're completely functional and often successful. They're not psychopaths, they won't start killing people. But they have no regard for the feelings and troubles of others. They will lie, cheat, manipulate their way to the top by any means necessary. Thats who you're probably dealing with. (There was this GREAT article by a big name psychiatrist on workspace sociopaths on reddit a while back but I can't find it, sorry)
Now, I've learned through experience that these people exploit the **** out of "diplomacy". They take advantage of the fact that you don't want to make a big thing out of this, they KNOW you wan't to keep a low profile and they exploit that weakness to bully you. Dealing with bullies is easy. Just walk up to him and tell him to stop. Flat out, plain and simple stop. Let him know crystal clear that you know what he's doing and you want him to stop. No diplomacy.
You could also fight fire with fire.
This will have repercussions ofcourse. It might mean going into a stupid office politics "war" with the guy. So think about it and choose whats right for your particular situation. But keep in mind that these abuses tend to increase and it will get to a point that it will make your worklife miserable. Its best to deal with it early and make the ****er know that it will cost him to **** with you and he better go find someone else.
OR I could be wrong and the guy is just advocating for transparency in the company (Doubt it. He only CCs your boss, not others.)
I say find him after work and beat his ass. Then pretend nothing happened when you are at work.
Definitely an option. But be very careful cause its really ****ing illegal >_>
With personal experience the proper way to handle hostile problems is to report it to management and human resources. But keep in mind that you also have to work with these people to so cool down before you say something that makes you look like the ass.
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My boss always CC's his goddamn boss when he emails me. Grinds my gears
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natious said:
pm me his and your boss email, ill email him gayporn and cc your boss
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one and only real(and legal) solution , invite to gay clubs too just to "hang out"
also , do it while pretending to be a colleague sending from home address , keep doing till he stops
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pm me his and your boss email, ill email him gayporn and cc your boss
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This made my weekend.
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I know these types of people all too well. Having dealt with some myself. these people are not top be trusted, they can't wait to pull the rug right under your feet. They want to get ahead by making you look bad. My advice to you is to speak with him directly and ask him why he is doing it and tell him it makes you feel uncomfortable. As he can't be trusted he may have moved to bcc your boss instead, so you should voiced your concern with your boss as well. You must cover your ass at all times with this guy. So document anything important concerning him and always answer his emails as if your boss may be in bcc and don't take any **** attempt from him to make you look bad especially via email and answer him to set the record straight, r this is party of documenting.
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A dark alley. A late night event. A mindless ass-kicking.
It could be fun.
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A dark alley. A late night event.
It could be fun.
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See? Thats what happens when a passive agressive sociopath makes the big mistake of ****ing with a psychopath.
Sorry about putting this here, seeing as its not the most cheerful subject and all.
A close friend passed away recently and I wanted to get something to put on his grave, I dont know if you've seen them but you can get these large plastic frames that have real flowers on them arranged to make text like "Brother".
I wanted something like that but a bit more permanent and I want to be able to put custom text there.
Are any of you aware of any such service? Time doesnt really matter but as always I havent got tons of money to spend so I dont really know where to look first.
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Sorry about putting this here, seeing as its not the most cheerful subject and all.
A close friend passed away recently and I wanted to get something to put on his grave, I dont know if you've seen them but you can get these large plastic frames that have real flowers on them arranged to make text like "Brother".
I wanted something like that but a bit more permanent and I want to be able to put custom text there.
Are any of you aware of any such service? Time doesnt really matter but as always I havent got tons of money to spend so I dont really know where to look first.
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Talk to the funeral parlour. They should know where to arrange a stone engraving service of sorts.
Other than that, I don't know
And I'm sorry for your loss.
Sorry to hear about your friend. Spike Milligan had "I told you i was ill" as his epitaph. Personally, i'd prefer something with humour rather than something somber too, but most churches have strict rules about this so you'd have to check to see what is or isn't deemed acceptable where you are.
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Sorry to hear about your friend. Spike Milligan had "I told you i was ill" as his epitaph. Personally, i'd prefer something with humour rather than something somber too, but most churches have strict rules about this so you'd have to check to see what is or isn't deemed acceptable where you are.
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Infact due to church rules, he had to have "Dúirt mé leat go raibh mé breoite" which is the Irish for "I told you I was ill"
My sister met Spike once as a young relative of his went to our school, he was a fun guy.
Some rules are pathetic such as not allowing Daddy or Mummy.
You can get realistic small flowers which can make up the flower arrangements such as MUM.
Another thought would be if you have a group photo, or the pair of you together, get it printed on metal/acrylic/perspex so that it can be placed with the grave and cope with the weather, just make sure you get assurances from the printer that their process is suitable for outdoor display and resistant to fading.
So this has absolutely nothing to do with Android or anything...
So me and my wife have been together since freshman year in high school we are now 27.. have a 7 year old and a 1 month old. I love her.. and would never cheat on her..
A week or so ago I got a message from a cute chick on facebook saying she wanted to be my friend. I asked her why she said because she thought i looked cute in my pictures. I told her she wasn't so bad looking and we had a kind of flirty conversation. I did however tell her about my wife and kids and we talked about things like where we live and what not.. noting more than a PG conversation..
IT NEVER WENT ANY FARTHER THAN THIS CONVERSATION AND ONLY ONCE...
So i left my FB page up and my wife snooped and read my messages.. she is now crying..
I do feel bad that she got her feelings hurt, but i don't really feel like i did anything wrong..
Let me know what you guys think about my mess i made... just curious about outside opinions..
Well, just tell her it was a mistake.
You were stupid and just liked the attention. It wasn't like you intended to cheat on her.
Think about how you would feel if you seen her doing that to you.
Nothing will gain you're trust back from her but time...
The above is very good advice.
This seems like a weird place to ask such a question, but what the hell, I'll give it a shot too.
Tell her you love her very much and that you would never, ever cheat on her. You have to be absolutely sincere about this and make yourself believe it even if you actually did think about cheating. Any doubt that you show she will pick up on now.
PS: I've never understood why everyone loves Facebook. I hate that ****.
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Well, just tell her it was a mistake.
You were stupid and just liked the attention. It wasn't like you intended to cheat on her.
Think about how you would feel if you seen her doing that to you.
Nothing will gain you're trust back from her but time...
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Thanks. Good advice
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The above is very good advice.
This seems like a weird place to ask such a question, but what the hell, I'll give it a shot too.
Tell her you love her very much and that you would never, ever cheat on her. You have to be absolutely sincere about this and make yourself believe it even if you actually did think about cheating. Any doubt that you show she will pick up on now.
PS: Facebook sucks.
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I am sincere. I had no intentions of cheating..
LOL and i know but I am here alot you guys are like family and it seemed like a good place to get non objective view..
Its reasons like that me and my wife share a FB account. Full freaking transparency! Just tell her you got caught up for a minute because we all like to be flattered once in a while. I'm sure she has flirted at some point behind your back.
In times of great personal conflict and inner-turmoil with the ones I love, I also think of turning to an cell-phone internet message board of complete strangers for advice.
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Its reasons like that me and my wife share a FB account. Full freaking transparency! Just tell her you got caught up for a minute because we all like to be flattered once in a while. I'm sure she has flirted at some point behind your back.
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+1 to this. My wife and I share one too and have the privacy set high. We orignally got it to "spy" on people but have since put some stuff on there. Agree also with the "everyone wants to feel special" once in awhile aspect too. I can garauntee that if you try hard enough, you can find some instance that she has flirted too, but why would you want to do that b/c you'll just end up over analyzing everything. Just say you are sorry.
Side story:
A long time ago (15+) before FB, G+ ot twitter, I used to work nights in college. I got home late one night and my girlfriend at the time was asleep. The phone rang and I used to have this habit of screwing with tele-marketers to hopefully piss them off enough to drop my number.
This time it was just a wrong number, but there was a shy, what sounded like a cute voice on the other line that apologized for calling the wrong number. Before she got off the phone, I asked her what she was wearing and messed with her a little bit, then hung up. Told my girlfriend in the morning about it and we laughed (full disclosure-sorry I'm honest like that).
Anyways this girl called back the next night too and this time my girlfriend was up and we totally messed with this girls head and got her to agree to meet for a 3-way (only problem was she didn't know my GF was on the phone so it was going to be with her and her boyfriend-I don't do two swords if you know what I mean).
Long story short, we completely messed with this girl and my phone company at the time had this feature that if right after you got an annoying call you could hit *57 and if you did it to the same number 3 times in one month, it got their phone shut off for a month for harassing.
If you can't or won't follow though woth something, don't chat with someone you don't know. For all you know, it could have been me on the other side of the Facebook message.
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Thanks. Good advice
I am sincere. I had no intentions of cheating..
LOL and i know but I am here alot you guys are like family and it seemed like a good place to get non objective view..
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Yeah man, what you SHOULD do now, dont know if youre willing to do so, but you should just give her your facebook password. If you know youre not going to do anything like that again, she should be able to have it.
It will get a LOADDD off her shoulders knowing she doesnt have to sneak up on you, but rather look for herself at any time.
Hope everything goes well for you man. Just give it time.
FACEBOOK IS FULL OF PEOPLE YOU USED TO KNOW AND DONT WANT TO TALK TO, TWITTER IS FULL OF PEOPLE YOU DONT KNOW AND WOULD LIKE TO TALK TO..IMO,Hope everything works out,
hope everything is working out.
Im just a couple yrs older than you and have have been married about the same time, have 1 child also; so I can understand how this would be a really emotional situation for her and then you.
others gave good advice. be honest w her. tell her it was a mistake. let her look through all your other FB, email, ect... messages to prove to her that this was a one time semi-inocent situation.
even though you did nothing wrong, and maybe you did not, but put yourself in her situation. if you found that on her FB, you would probably be pretty pissed too (at least I would be).
so let her look at everything, give her your passwords, what ever you need to show her that this was a one time incident, that it was nothing more then casual chatting, but you understand that she is upset and you see how it looks now, you would be too in her situation, and that you wont do it again.
good luck
Online cheating is cheating.
I have a different opinion.
I think you should have never added her and never had any type of conversation with her. There is no reason a married man with children should be adding random females to his Facebook.
Secondly, you said you had no intention of cheating, but what about online cheating? What if she had asked you to get on Skype so she could give you a little show. Are you telling me you wouldn't go and watch and maybe join on Skype yourself?
That is my opinion. We live in a new world, and online relationships are a form of cheating in my opinion. You wouldn't sit with this girl at a coffee shop and chit chat, you shouldn't online either.
That's why I'm getting married till I'm like late 20's/early 30's
Hope it works out mate!
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So this has absolutely nothing to do with Android or anything...
So me and my wife have been together since freshman year in high school we are now 27.. have a 7 year old and a 1 month old. I love her.. and would never cheat on her..
A week or so ago I got a message from a cute chick on facebook saying she wanted to be my friend. I asked her why she said because she thought i looked cute in my pictures. I told her she wasn't so bad looking and we had a kind of flirty conversation. I did however tell her about my wife and kids and we talked about things like where we live and what not.. noting more than a PG conversation..
IT NEVER WENT ANY FARTHER THAN THIS CONVERSATION AND ONLY ONCE...
So i left my FB page up and my wife snooped and read my messages.. she is now crying..
I do feel bad that she got her feelings hurt, but i don't really feel like i did anything wrong..
Let me know what you guys think about my mess i made... just curious about outside opinions..
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Tell her you love her AND that you were A COMPETE DUMBASS for having a meaningless, stupid convo. Then be good and don't do this AGAIN!
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One day I was at my girlfriend's house, her hot sister came to me and asked if I would like to sleep with her. I was shocked, and, as fast as I could, ran out of the house to my car. To my surprise my girlfriend was outside leaning against the car. She then said, "I knew I could trust you! ", then gave me a hug and told me she loved me.
Moral of the story?
Always keep your condoms in your car.
Wow, what a mess you've gotten yourself into.
If you haven't already, I think you need to first know and understand why your wife is upset.
After years of marriage, she certainly knows you as a person. If you're the type of person who doesn't cheat, she probably knows it. So it's not really a matter of "cheating".
It's a matter of loyalty and sense of security.
It's inevitable that people change over time. They're older, wiser, have different perspectives, etc. But the one thing that doesn't (ie, shouldn't) change is your commitment to your spouse.
when people first started dating, they think they're the perfect match for each other. After years of marriage you might:
-pack on some extra weight
-lose some hair
-no longer buy flowers for your wife
-no longer put up the toilet seat
-have different political views
-discover both of you have different tastes in music
-etc
But, damn it, she knows that at least she can confidently say "After all this time, my husband still loves me."
And if she has a bad day at work or if she just needs a hug, you're there for her. No matter what, you're suppose to have her back. You're her pillar to lean on. She might not need your support all the time, but she knows that if she does, you're there all the time, rock solid.
That "pillar" is what you've compromised here.
So when trying to make amends, don't focus on the FB chat. That's not the real issue at hand. Do what you need to do to let her know that you're still there for her.
TO YOUR WIFE :
plz forgive him, it's nothing, he's a loving husband if he's asking such a small thing here, that means he loves you alot.
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Me and my GF had a three day fight cause I never changed my Facebook profile from "single" to "in a relationship", and she thinks she had it bad. Of cpurse her drama queen sister conviced her it was so i can cheat. I only log in once or twice a month and never thought to change it.
OP you guys should just delete all your Facebook profiles, its more trouble than it's worth, like the situation you got into.
Facebook is nothing but a gathering for information and statistics anyway.
Simply don't post stuff at all
I figured why not...let me run something by some strangers / outsiders and see what you think of this. I'll make it brief.
This girl I dated almost a year ago (I've moved on already but it was her who wanted to end the relationship) every couple of months will send me a text message or two trying to elicit a response from me. It's usually a non-threatening vague message that I typically ignore. We're both in our mid to late 20s.
Well now she sent another message to me a few days ago and quite frankly the only part of me that feels bad is I'm not the type of person to just flat out ignore or blow someone off but at the same time I really don't see what it'll accomplish talking to said person again.
How would you handle it?
Still keep ignoring?
Respond back in a mean fashion or in a way to stop her from ever texting you again?
Just be civil and reply back?
Other?
Just curious...here was the gist of the message...I've continued to maintain radio silence basically...
ex's message said:
Thought about you today and hope you are doing well [gives short description of some prior event spawning her to think of me]. Wish I could tell you how sorry I am about how immature I was last year but it doesn't matter so much I guess...I wanted to let you know I realize that and I do wish we had a friendship.
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Just write to her "Cool Story, Sis" and never reply to her again. Or just give simple answers like "that's cool" or "good for you". Also she might be drunk texting u.
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Attention seeking. Unless you feel some burning need to get involved with her again, simply tell her to stop bothering you.
The best possible way to handle this is to give her my number.
Install a call/message blocking app so you never even know when you get another text from her and there's no dilemma.
I agree with Dirk - she's attention seeking, and if that is the case then she's more trouble than she's worth.
There's only one way to handle this....
Get blind drunk.
Acquire machete...
Drive to her house....
Strip down to your underwear...
Play this song REALLY loudly......
Proceed to hack the crap out of her garden.....
Await inevitable scream from window/being dragged away by police.....
Problem solved....
So what I am about to say sounds crazy, it sounds crazy to me. But I believe that I have been manipulated into doing horrific acts that I still can't believe it was me doing it. I have been drugged and cocerced into behaving such a way or another way. I also believe that I am being attacked right now. Below is something I started typing and then realized that if I didnt get this on something public then it wouldn't matter and everything was erased. But I don't know their level of access. Anyways just as well I could be a paranoid guy that does drugs. But if I was someone that thought they were hearing things and the people closest to him were telling them that were crazy then he would really start to buy into the crazy theory but when they try to hard and then you start thinking how every time after you done something completely out of character of yourself you felt like someone pulled every right string they could to get you pumped up to do just that thing. I believe it was all a lie. Every bit of it. And I will prove all of this in court.
My ****bhas been misplaced on purpose. So what you have a slue of felonies to choose from. Mind you that I believe any and all felonies that I do possess were coearced by the individuals closets to me. I want this statement released before any production is released. If it has I want a ceased and desist. I want it to be known
To continue what I started on. If anyone sees this and they have any kind of montoring devices on my phone I want a cease and desist. I don't know if I can ask for that. Does anyone know if you can lawfully tell anyone and everyone to stay off my phone is there a way to log the ips connecting to my phone and then search which app and what it's connecting to. I would love all of this to be the great drug fog that has been clouding my mind. But as well those were put in front of my fsce with little ease. So I would rather not involve the law or anything like that yet until I have definite proof
ZandyHill1985 said:
So what I am about to say sounds crazy, it sounds crazy to me. But I believe that I have been manipulated into doing horrific acts that I still can't believe it was me doing it. I have been drugged and cocerced into behaving such a way or another way. I also believe that I am being attacked right now. Below is something I started typing and then realized that if I didnt get this on something public then it wouldn't matter and everything was erased. But I don't know their level of access. Anyways just as well I could be a paranoid guy that does drugs. But if I was someone that thought they were hearing things and the people closest to him were telling them that were crazy then he would really start to buy into the crazy theory but when they try to hard and then you start thinking how every time after you done something completely out of character of yourself you felt like someone pulled every right string they could to get you pumped up to do just that thing. I believe it was all a lie. Every bit of it. And I will prove all of this in court.
My ****bhas been misplaced on purpose. So what you have a slue of felonies to choose from. Mind you that I believe any and all felonies that I do possess were coearced by the individuals closets to me. I want this statement released before any production is released. If it has I want a ceased and desist. I want it to be known
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